So I left my ex of 13 years in March due to the fact he had 2 one night stands 7 and 10 years into relationship and other disrespectful behaviour.
He has since met a girl 10 years younger than me 1 month ago and I am really not coping well with this.
We have two children together and now I'm thinking I have made a mistake in leaving him. I miss him and I'm feeling resentful that he seems to be over me when he told me he loves me so much. I'm the one who left yet I'm sat at home with my dc crying while he is out having fun with this new girlfriend who is young and has no children.
I thought I had made the right decision in leaving although I still loved him loads but just couldn't get pass his infidelities or the way he had treated me. Now I'm stuck because he wouldn't want me back if I asked him now, so the tables have turned!
Am I normal in feeling this way? It's been 3 weeks since I found out about their relationship and I'm regretting leaving. It hasn't helped that my friends have told me they think I am crazy for leaving over a couple of mistakes he made. What is the best way of dealing with this now, I am close to phoning him but can't deal with the rejection. Arrgghh this is so shit!!
Sorry if this is jumbled, I'm all over the place at the moment...
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Ex has new girlfriend and now I think I want him back....
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Chocberry · 10/08/2013 18:53
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