I am feeling at the moment that I must be rather a poor friend. I seem to have lost touch with some of the nicest people I know, and feel they don't want to reconnect very badly. In a couple of cases I know they are having a hard time and I've made attempts to listen and help, but I haven't done very well, judging by the reaction. We are all at a time of life where small children take over and people are bound up in work/life issues, but even so I can't seem to induce old friends to meet up for a coffee.
If you're thinking 'Well, you must be a right cow' then rest assured I feel that way about myself too. The trouble is I don't know what I'm doing wrong, or if it's them or me or life or what. (I don't repel everyone, though, I have a good network of acquaintances, it's my friendships I'm worried about.)
I thought, rather than go into individual scenarios, I'd ask about really good friendships you have and what you think makes them work.
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Tell me about your best and nicest friendships
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BrilliantName · 10/08/2013 12:37
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