At 37yrs I have decided to really get to 'base level' problems with my childhood. I have completed sessions with a counsellor and pyschologist. Self-motivated work is ongoing at the moment.
Certain revelations have come to light in the course of the therapies. Here are two...
1.) Mum is likely to have Narcissistic Personality Disorder and this has severely affected her capacity to mother, her acceptance of me and affected relationships with my siblings. There is a 'public' and 'private' face with her.
2.) Abuse and Neglect have been mentioned by both professionals (I had entertained this idea but told myself that what I experienced was 'too subtle and insidious' to be outright abuse - denial on my part).
Now that abuse has been recognised; I feel the need to seek support from the family members that I have a strong relationship with. I feel that I can turn to my aunty and older brother. I recognise that to heal; I need to be able to reveal my 'secrets' and then re-build according to how I want my future to be.
My problem is how to let them know the content of some of my sessions carefully and sensitively to elicit support. Because my mother is very clever at making abuse seem like natural parenting; I anticipate that there may issues initially at them accepting some of my explanation.
Does anyone have any advice?
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JohFlow · 25/07/2013 13:37
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