My Lovely dad last week, and his funeral is this Thursday in our home town, I am just about holding it together. DD16 and dd 17 although upset have been a tower of strength.
My Partner who moved in with us two weeks ago has been a fantastic support too.
My DP only met my dad once as he lived miles away, my dp is coming to the funeral as will be a great support for me and dds.
The thing is dd has now told me that there dad is wanting to come which seeing as my dad helped us out yrs ago to set up our business and was a big support to us is fine he wants to show his respect, but knowing him he will want to sit next to dds in the church, I dont want him sitting with me and my sisters as the front.
my ex and I dont hate each other but I do feel nervous and intimated around him also ex will hate that dp is their to support us, we are travelling back to my home town Wed and staying with my mum (dp and dm were divorced) dd has told me that my ex might come to my home town on wed night I have said my mum or anyone cant put him up.
My family and friends dislike him.
I should be grieving for my lovely dad but am now worried about this, DDs do want their dad there, I have said too dds that their dad wont be sitting with us in the church.
And am I wrong to want DP next to me in the church for support, although this will get exs back up. or am I just worrying too much, Have put this here as cant cope with AIBU.
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twoteens · 22/07/2013 10:06
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