I am feeling quite isolated at the moment for various reasons and have been trying for quite some time to extend my social circle a little. However I have found it really difficult and have found other people's reaction to my quest a bit disheartening.
People keep suggesting that I am not trying hard enough and that in fact it is really easy to make friends. I've been told to join groups, accept all invitations and be more 'open' to meeting others. But is it really that easy? I have done sme night classes and, although the people were nice, there was no suggestion that anyone there wanted to do more than just attend the class. I have registered on 'meet a mum' type sites but things never seem to get beyond a couple of emails. I started antenatal classes recently and, again, the people were lovely but seem to just want to be there for the information only.
I just don't get it.... Maybe I am dong something wrong but I can't seem to find this 'easy friend making' route that everyone tells me is possible and to be honest it's really getting me down. I think I am a nice person but just don't seem to get this friend thing....
Any thoughts anyone?
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Is it really so easy to make friends?
Freudianslap · 21/07/2013 12:54
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