When dh and I met he told me about a female friend of his who had an obsession with him!?
In between girlfriends he would get together with her.I think he took advantage .By all accounts she had an obsession.Many of his friends confirmed some very odd behaviour.
When we decided to have a family I made it clear I didnt want this woman around .It was agreed.
He has told me that he has used her in the past when relationships broke down.He is not proud of this, but that is how it is .
100% by accident I saw a text on his phone from her last night.It turns out that he has been in touch for a couple of weeks.Gone to the establishment she works at with a mutual friend and have been in touch.She asked him for an item he sells and he obliged.Essentially the friendship has restarted without my knowledge.
How does a sane normal person react to this please
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please help me respond sensibly!? FURIOUS
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