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Husband taken by aliens

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Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 04:23:35

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PlainOldVanilla Sun 14-Jul-13 10:26:35

Posted to soon...

It's a horrible situation and I feel for you but I think you need to try and accept that there's nothing you can do

Vivacia Sun 14-Jul-13 14:37:20

Would you consider counselling? Relate can support couples who are separating as much as they can help those who want to stay together.

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 20:23:28

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Vivacia Sun 14-Jul-13 21:28:43

Wow Littlet, you've had a heck of a day. Are you sure you're feeling ok?

Vivacia Sun 14-Jul-13 21:29:17

And if you've not thrown him, what are the arrangements for tonight??

CogitoErgoSometimes Sun 14-Jul-13 21:32:58

Not throwing him out isn't a way to get peace for all.... Why torture yourself a minute more than you have to?

Vivacia Sun 14-Jul-13 21:34:56

I think it's because she doesn't want to let him play the martyr Cogito, although who would see him as a victim in this, I really don't know.

skyeskyeskye Sun 14-Jul-13 21:53:56

I am glad that you found out the truth, as it was obvious from your posts that he was seeing somebody else, as they always start to criticize the wife and tell them that they don't love them any more, because they have feelings for somebody else.

No you are not going crazy, but your husband has cheated on you. You really need to decide what you want to do next, but obviously you have had a huge shock.

Distrustinggirlnow Sun 14-Jul-13 21:55:04

Just caught up with your thread OP, really sorry to hear what you're going through. How on earth did you find all this out...?

His behaviour did sound to me like classic OW stuff, but I always hope that its not.

Hope you're ok and that the champagne is nicely chilled wine

WhiteBirdBlueSky Sun 14-Jul-13 22:05:59

Oh no!

I think I would kick him out. Otherwise you're just playing mind games.

invicta Sun 14-Jul-13 22:13:35

Hope you are alright. How did you find out?

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:00:12

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MalcolmTuckersMum Sun 14-Jul-13 23:03:18

Wow. Just …………wow.

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:09:41

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Smudging Sun 14-Jul-13 23:11:55

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Smudging Sun 14-Jul-13 23:12:40

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Lweji Sun 14-Jul-13 23:14:29

Why don't you let him wake up to the sight of his packed bags?

(I hope you used contraception, better a condom, who knows what he picked up from her)

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:15:50

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Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:17:38

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Lweji Sun 14-Jul-13 23:18:01

You don't seem happy about your plan.

jayho Sun 14-Jul-13 23:19:40

you rock, in a weird fucked up way that I can relate to..................

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:20:07

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TheCrackFox Sun 14-Jul-13 23:20:08

How bloody dare he blame you! What a crock of shit that you emasculated him and this somehow forced him to put his dick in another woman. He could at least own up to his own fuck up.

Throw the cunt out and stop listening to his self pitying drivel. He has watched you fall apart and have a near breakdown of his lies, emotional abuse and monstrous selfishness.

Get him out - don't let him think about what he wants. What do you want? Do you really want to be with this douche bag?

jayho Sun 14-Jul-13 23:20:50

oh yeah, sti check, make him go pre hol.

Littlet932 Sun 14-Jul-13 23:21:24

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