Spent an hour ranting why I dislike and also hate DH's side of the family in couples counselling today. One hour was just not enough. I can rant for bloody hours. All of them. I don't want to any of them. I don't care and I don't want them visiting or staying over. Why should I be hostess and put effort if they have clearly demonstrated on numerous occasions they can't be bothered with me?
I just don't want them in my life and I Cate barely tolerate them in my dcs lives too.
I'm not going to go into the why's. Suffice to say they cause me deep distress and just hearing their names make me want to throw up.
Its 90% the reason why I split from dH before. We're trying again to make it work. Especially for our dC's.
I would like to hear your experiences on how you deal with toxic family because I just want DH to understand. Do you know what it feels like?
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make my dh understand i am DONE with his family
CookieDoughKid · 09/07/2013 20:59
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