Hi all, I'm writing this as I don't know what to make of my relationship or so called lack of.
Me and OH have been together 4 years have a DS who is 1. The past few months I feel like I have totally gone off him. I don't like to be kissed or have any affection, don't really like or want to have sex anymore and generally feel blah towards him.
We argue a lot and I am very snappy and irritable towards him.
We have been through a lot this past year having to deal with his family issues for example his mother hating me since I have birth, the fact his mother isn't his mother and is another family member :/ , his brother being a hateful callouse idiot and the list goes on.
I've been busy going back to work part time and studying full time for my degree and went though a bout of depression to which ive had no support. He pretty much laughed about it when the dr confirmed it an said oh your not depressed stop exaggerating!
I just don't know why I feel this way towards him. He is a good dad and a good man, does a lot around the house, works full time.
Every time I ask him to leave he won't and I have said its simply because he has no where else to go.
I've said time apart would do us good to value each other but he won't leave at all. He moans about the lack of sex which makes me less declined to give it.
What do people think? Is there hope or what?
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Dont know What to make of my relationship anymore?
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Perriwinkle9991 · 08/07/2013 00:37
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