I don't know what else to say. Dh has really annoyed me today. I had thought recently we were making progress but the last week things have slipped.
To be honest I think we are drifting apart. Never spend any time as a couple and I almost feel 'awkward' around him now.
We have 4 dcs with serious health problems and we are both exhausted as have health issues ourselves. Money is another issue, I am in charge of the finances as dh ends up lending to feckless members of his family or buying what he cannot afford.
Also he is going on a 10 day holoday alone in aug and tbh I am massively pissed off that he is going.
We had a row today as he said he needed new clothes for holiday I said I'd get some from primark/h and m as its not too expensive and he said he wants better make ones and I lost my temper. I'm working to a tigfht budget with our finances and he doesn't understand that he can't have the best of stuff. He criticised a pair of asda shorts I had once got him so I cut them up and threw them away, took my wedding ring off and cried. It doesn't help I have pmt but I'm at the end of my tether.
I really feel like we cannot ever go back to how we once were too much has been said/done and we have drifted apart I think.
I get the impression he hankers after an easy life, relaxing holidays and dcs seem too much for him to deal with.
I'm so fed up.
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I just need to vent. I am so annoyed/frustrated/angry/tearful
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