Bckground Story: Last April ExH confessed to having affair with another Mum from school. Said he wanted to give marriage a shot, but actually continued to see her and then was surprised at Relate session when I said I couldn't continue with marriage while he continued his 'friendship' (his words). He moved out 30th June last year first 'sleepover' with OW with DD there on 3rd July. Since then OW's DD has verbally and physically bullied DD at first ExH and OW could imagine how it was happening, but it has mostly stopped after I pushed hard.
Originally ExH was going to file for divorce I signed all the papers he did nothing with them for 6 months added to his total inability to change his address on anything change any mortgages etc. Where he was off the house mortgage very quickly I organised all that.
Anyway I though I was doing okay and moving forward, but the last 24 hours have shown me I wasn't OW was at Sports Day yesterday and all my previously anxieties surface up feelings of panic etc (I had these this time last year, but thought they had subsided). And I am back feeling really angry as this morning as I dropped DD at school ExH dropped OW's DD off at school something he claims he is unable to do for our DD.
Hopefully DD will change school in 2 years time and it is highly unlikely that OW's DD would change to the same school for a whole variety of reasons. I am I really going to feel like this for the next 2 years?
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I don' think there is anything anyone can do just need to rant
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Lonecatwithkitten · 21/06/2013 09:00
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