I've been with my boyf a month and he decided to inform me last night he's going to Blackpool for the day and night at the end of the month , the same day of my son's birthday. My children have been in care for just over a year and I am still majorily struggling . Every single day is torture for me and I won't be seeing my son either so the day is gonna be really tough.
Am I being unfair to expect him to be there for me that day rather than in blackpool ?(he went last month for 4 days and has another 4 planned for august lads weekends. )
I have been having majorily second thoughts now about the relationship because how can I be with someone who obviously thinks more of spending a night away than supporting me when I need him. He said I will just be down and depressed anyway so it's only 1 night. He's 25 got no kids and no responsibilities and I'm 29 and after everything I've been through the past year am I being too needy ?
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Am I in the wrong for expecting his support so soon?
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getmeoutofthismadhouse · 16/06/2013 11:16
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