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Any one else gettin private messages on here from men?

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allaboutthegirl · 12/06/2013 00:28

Anyone else gettin these? Nothing unpplesant , just blokes wanting to be friends Hmm Think they must send a similar one to a load of us. Last one said he was a single Dad and my post rang bells with him Confused

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:30

No i dont And the cynic in me tells me its because ive mentioned im a size 20.
(well not quite now because ive lost a stone in two months) not that i want pms from blokes.

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tallwivglasses · 12/06/2013 00:31

no, but my daughter did. It turns out he had a habit of congratulating newly pregnant young mums and was swiftly dealt with by mnhq.

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schooldidi · 12/06/2013 00:31

I did once. It was after a post where I shared how infrequently dp and I were having sex at the time. I did not reply.

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Bogeyface · 12/06/2013 00:32

I havent but I have read about a few other regulars who have. Report the messages to MNHQ.

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PowerPants · 12/06/2013 00:33

Shock schooldidi! So he thought he'd step in and 'help'. How thoughtful.

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schooldidi · 12/06/2013 00:35

He didn't expressly offer to help, but the implication was there. It was odd, to say the least.

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:35

schooldi ive talked about my sexless marriage lots on here and it hasnt happened to me.
Be interesting to see if i start to get any after i finish losing weight.

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schooldidi · 12/06/2013 00:37

Maybe you will. I'm size 18-20 but I hadn't mentioned my size on that name.

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:38

Sorry scholdi It Just seems to reinforce how shallow some blokes can be.

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LackaDAISYcal · 12/06/2013 00:40

I did once a long ago...some dirty old bloke wanting to buy old bras. He was on a few threads at the same time as well...

Report to MNHQ.

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spatchcock · 12/06/2013 00:41

Ewww, yuck. How sad are these men?!

Creepy men: join a dating site, you parasites.

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Bogeyface · 12/06/2013 00:43

Well frankly I think that if a man, who is clearly very kind, offers to help you sexless ladeeees out then the least you could do is respond!

After all, it took a lot of effort for him to find you, and the very least he deserves is a bit of sexting or a virtual blow job! But no, he must wine and dine you, get to know you, act like a decent human being.....

Honestly.....some of you want the world!
:o

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:44

Grin at Bogey.

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spatchcock · 12/06/2013 00:44

How do you do a virtual blow job?

Wait ... can you PM me with, erm, a blow-by-blow description?

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BOF · 12/06/2013 00:44

Report it. Oh, and name and shame! Have you Advanced Searched them? Do they post, or just lurk?

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spatchcock · 12/06/2013 00:45

Actually, don't PM me I'm about to eat my dinner.

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PowerPants · 12/06/2013 00:45

I've had a random or two on Facebook, but I would never have imagined men reading threads here to pick off 'sex starved' (in their heads) women.

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QuintessentialOldDear · 12/06/2013 00:48

Is he offering to look after your Yoni for lurking sootikins?

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Bogeyface · 12/06/2013 00:49

Not sure about the virtual blow job tbh! I think it is like sexting, so describing the act while he has a wee hand shandy.

Its still not much to ask is it? You vipers......Wink

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:50

I have an advert that keeps coming up on my fb page that says Faithful Women Needed.
I prob wont articulate this very well but it implies to me that.
. the men using it think all women are cheats if they happen to be a sexual being. Theres just something about it that makes me cringe.

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Darkesteyes · 12/06/2013 00:52

I actually have sex chatline experience.

Should have been less shallow boys!!

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StitchAteMySleep · 12/06/2013 01:27

I have several years ago after I commented on a thread about sex after pregnancy. He made some comment about me sounding knowledgeable. I ignored it.

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AnyFucker · 12/06/2013 07:27

Report and block

but name and shame first..

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AnyFucker · 12/06/2013 07:28

I have had a couple of nasty, name calling ones that could have been from men I suppose. No sexual advances though.

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 12/06/2013 10:06

I can't think why you don't get sexual advances AF.... You come across so pliable and kittenish.... :)

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