I love my dh very much. He is kind, thoughtful and generous. We have 4dc and the youngest is 7 months. However, some of his behaviour has upset me recently and I don't know if I'm brushing it under the carpet or have lost respect for myself that I continue to accept it. Since we had dc4, he has done the following:
Within weeks if dc4, he was googling images of women in underwear, bikinis, topless etc. he knows how much I hate this as I find it demoralising, disrespectful and hurtful.
Women that he comes across or will be meeting via work, friends etc he googles them or searches for them on line.
He looks at sex sites on occasion just out of curiosity.
He never contacts women online although in the past would chat to old female friends on line without me knowing.
He has always been faithful and I am very confident of this. I suppose what I'm asking is the above acceptable and just normal male (and female?) behAviour? He shows a lot of remorse when things come to light, but I'm just not sure if I overreact or his behaviour is not on.
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Normal male behaviour?
Cinacina · 07/06/2013 16:53
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