Brief history....
I am 34 and married with a 3 year old dd. Have been with my dh for 6 years, married for 2.
I find the thought of sex repulsive, its not my dh i find repulsive, just sex...with any man. I have no idea why!
I guess I went off sex a little when I was pregnant, before that we had a great sex life. It has dwindled away and now we only do it maybe one or twice every 6 months. Its making me so sad, as i know it makes dh think its him or that I dont find him attractive.
I tries a few times just to do it but I just feel horrible and can't bear being touched. I have put on a lot of weight so I am not happy with myself at all.
I have suffered on and off with anxiety and depression, i take medication for it.
Here is the most embarrassing part (i have to be honest to get answers though) I sometimes like to look at female and female porn to masturbate, not very often, but I am not attracted to women..wtaf is that about?
I desperately want to sort myself out,my poor dh can't wait forever, its not fair on him and i would love to be how we were. Any advice would be so gratefully accepted, i can't go on like this.
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Why don't I want to have sex?
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stressedandlonely · 07/06/2013 13:41
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