I know it's not anything gravely serious, but just wanted to write it down/rant anyways! So here goes
Had a bit of a pants time with ex and decided I should try and put myself back out there almost 6 months on. Anyways, I decide to give Guardian Soulmates a try.
I get chatting to a seemingly nice bloke- a bit older- but nice. Intelligent conversation flows on email and be seems genuinely interested. Nice enough looking, but not gorgeous.
Fast forward a months worth of constant emails and we take the plunge to meet. I like him although I am aware he's a good bit older, and perhaps obvious. He's very keen, flattering me and touches my leg at one point. It wasnt in a creepy way, either.
We leave after having dinner and sodas and a very polite peck on the lips, and a text to thank me.
We continue emailing. Fast forward a week and am in his hometown on personal business and agree to meet him the following day for lunch.
I meet him and we have what I think a lovely after ion. Laughed lots, he flatters me again, seems miffed that I don't sit next to him and choose opposite etc. am beginning to think , ok maybe you and I can get on. We end the date by him kissing me again and asking to hug me, all very nice really.
Bit of a stealth boost here, but I did think that I was perhaps slightly better looking (!) can I say that? And obviously younger, anyway , that's irrelevant until the next bit;
Yesterday comes and yesterday goes. We email as usual, but less frequent and i notice it's all very one sided which is quite out of character for him, or so I think. I ask is everything ok, and he says he's not feeling well (diabetic)
This morning was almost over and I hadn't heard which too was odd, I'd always wait for him to mail first. I politely asked how he was and was met with get another half assed reply. At dinner time I decide to ask him if he can call me. I get a curt reply saying he's out - unusual.
I reply saying what is really wrong and then bam
It's just that whilst he genuinely likes me he doesn't find me attractive enough !! - am really not Unattractive and a bit shocked by the rudeness, immaturity and utter ungentlemanliness (I made that word up!) of it all!
I reply and say ok. I felt it lacked manners but accepted that. Then he reiterates it again!!!
Am now in the bath feeling ugly, frankly!
As if my confidence wasnt bust enough already. Thoughts?!?!?
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Chaoscarriesonagain · 28/05/2013 20:47
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