I don't post much on this, more of a lurker but would appreciate some advice or maybe I just need to vent, not too sure.
Been in a relationship for 3 months now and I knew instantly it was love, he feels the same and we have spent pretty much every day together since our first kiss. Sorry if that's a bit sickly but it's true
Anyway, I do have self esteem issues which I'm trying to work on and can't figure out if this is just my low self esteem and lack of confidence that is making me feel like this or if my partner just isn't attracted to me anymore surely after just 3 months this shouldn't be the case?
First two months sex was great, he's very attentive and loving, lots of foreplay, touching, caressing ect but lately the past month I'd say, he just doesn't seem interested in my body or making me feel relaxed and turned on, sex is now kinda all about him.
I hate my belly and my thighs but they are not particularly big, just squidgey. Belly is just that of a mother I guess, not toned and kind hanging a bit. But, not any bigger or smaller than what it was when we first met. Im feeling like he doesn't want to touch me now because of this, or is that just in my head??
I've never orgasmed through penetration, only clitoral stimulation and even that takes a while to happen, I also find it quite hard to talk about our sex life and difficult to say what I like or want, to be honest I don't even know what I like or want! I just feel like he can't be bothered trying anymore, am I just too much hard work??
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Lostgirl27 · 28/05/2013 17:54
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