Hi has anyone else asked their ex to leave due to his moods and tempers only for it only to hit you a few months later that he was almost certainly been having an affair?
Sudden realisations keep hitting me
The fact that when he went on a boys night out he always looked smart and even wore his best underpants (when I questioned him about this he said that its nice to wear ALL smart clothes when on a night out!)
The times when he rushed in and upstairs to have a shower and clean his teeth straight from work when most of the time he at least said hello and played with the kids first
The suddenly picking arguments
The fact we were skint and he had an overdraft even though he earnt well above the national average wage
The weird text from a work colleague that was way too over friendly and when I asked him about this he said she talks like that to everyone
The fact his friends could barely talk to me on the one night I went out with them all
I could go on but its depressing me how stupid I have been
Now I am on my own with two kids struggling and he has done nothing but make my life hell since we split and blame everything on me!
I hate him and want to confron him but its pointless right?
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lizzie479 · 26/05/2013 21:56
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