That's it, really. Been with dh for 10 years during which time I've lost all my confidence. I used to have a professional career but am now not working. I've analysed this and I know correlation does not equal causation but he is very critical of me: EVERY decision is questioned. I'm at my wits end-he questioned today why I've so many umbrellas-4. Sounds trivial, but it's like this all the time. If I go to bed to read, he criticises my way of reading in bed.
He has a history of flirting online, making arrangements (he says he has not followed through, only did it cause 'bored'), chucks things in temper, broken lots of stuff.
Now he wants to do something called a female-led relationship, where I am in charge (!) I'm supposed to 'control' his behaviour as he is disorganised.
I know, deep down, I've got to leave but I simply lack the confidence. Help.
We have no children.
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