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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 22:29

I've just left a thread which has left me feeling a bit shit actually. I had to, I found it so disturbing.

Is there a thread worth having for talking about these things?

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Chubfuddler · 19/05/2013 22:33

Aka I think we were both on that thread. Op of it seems to have serious issues.

This thread will probs get deleted for breaking thread about a thread guidelines.

Don't give more of yourself than you can afford, usual advice but it is sound. Even if the op of that thread isn't listening hopefully there are women in similar thinking that kind of drama lama nonsense is normal - they'll realise it isn't I hope.

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 22:40

Thank you chub I didn't realise I'd be breaking guidelines.

Yes, it was same thread.

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LemonPeculiarJones · 19/05/2013 22:40

I lurked on that one (if its the one I'm thinking of - there is a single shoe involved) and I thought the poster was a troll (am I allowed to say that on a different thread?!).

The feverish circularity and constant gradual narrative expansion just seemed fake to me.

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 22:44

Well I was naive in thinking that this could be a thread which supported those who supported posters.

I can see that in internet posting it can't be. It's a shame.

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MeNeedShoes · 19/05/2013 22:49

I need a thread to help me understand WTF this thread is on. And OP you seem to be batting for both teams at once here.



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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 22:55

mcneedshoes get your head back together. My OP has been answered by chub.

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MeNeedShoes · 19/05/2013 23:01

Okay, reading posts 1-3 head remains intact.

Head doesn't explode until posts 4 & 5.

Wink

(Which thread was this one about?)

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 23:07

mc your confusion is why I can see this thread is not a good idea and Im sorry about that.

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Lweji · 19/05/2013 23:09

Now, I'm confused. Who's mc?

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 23:10

mcNeedsShoes

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 23:11

Shit am i going to get banned for this then?

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LemonPeculiarJones · 19/05/2013 23:12

Wha?! I'm post 4 - was just saying I thought it was hairy handed work - then what happened?!

Confused

Did I reference the wrong thread?

Where am I?

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 23:13

Shit am i going to get banned for this then?

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Lweji · 19/05/2013 23:15

MeNeedShoes

which thread anyway?

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ThingummyBob · 19/05/2013 23:17

I doubt it Grin

Don't worry and as Chub said, don't ever give more (emotionally) than you can afford to lose iyswim.

Theres nowt so queer as folk, as they say.

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akaWisey · 19/05/2013 23:19

No lemon. You didn't reference the wrong thread. Bt that's probably why it was a bad idea to post a thread about threads.

Sorry.

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CVSFootPowder · 19/05/2013 23:23

Before deletion, on this one. Yes, that thread really got to me. Not sure of the veracity of it TBH.

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BOF · 19/05/2013 23:26

There are a couple active tonight that are pretty troubling if true. I prefer to assume they are made up, tbh, and just hide them.

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LemonPeculiarJones · 19/05/2013 23:27

Don't be sorry Wisey - that thread obviously got to you. It bothered me a lot too but then I just started feeling too suspicious.

Hope we don't all get banned Grin

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ThisIsMummyPig · 19/05/2013 23:30

I haven't seen the thread tonight, but there was one about a month ago, about a neighbour babysitting, which really, really upset me. That was on a Sunday night too.

It made me want to leave mumsnet. I didn't post because it was so obviously a troll

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CVSFootPowder · 19/05/2013 23:38

Mummypig, if it's the same thread I'm thinking of, it was deleted pretty quickly? Same one? You'll always get sick twunts on the net, the thread tonight is totally different but still disturbing in its own way.

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