So yesterday, a complete & utter bolt from the blue, my parents (40 years married & just either side of 70 years old) announced they were separating. Neither my brother nor I had a clue. It appears my dad has hooked up with his ex & as a result my mum has started talking to hers. I'm aware this post could sound as though I'm making it up, I only wish i was. We're the most boring middle class, respectable family you could ever think of & now it sounds like something off Jeremy Kyle!
My reason for posting here is to ask for advice - does anyone know of any online resources that may help me get my head around this? I'm not sure how I'm feeling & am reluctant to call them till I've had a think. I want to get my mum some legal advice, but am scared of seeming to take sides & my dads been snooping at her email, so I can't just send her a link.
My other reason for posting is I'm so embarrassed about this & am reluctant to talk to my friends - many are family friends & also being the age of social media, via which I'm in contact with many relatives, it's not my place to break this news to the world.
Any advice great fully received.
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Jaffakake · 19/05/2013 20:17
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