I was a bit surprise this weekend to hear of a couple I know being discussed, and whom I had assumed were blissfully happy, about how they apparently "absolutely hate each other" and have only stayed together because they cannot afford to live separately in the area that they now live.
In other words they are staying together for the house and the lifestyle. One of them, I forget which one, apparently knew within 12 months of getting married that they had made a mistake.
OK, I am not naive and I know that none of us know what goes on behind closed doors in a marriage, but when I expressed shock at the above revelation about the couple I was then swamped with stories of numerous other couples who are outwardly happily married but who privately do not like each other. Children or house often being the only thing that is keeping them together.
It has given me pause for thought and left me wondering just how many marriages are like this? How many couples portray an outward appearance of lovingness and happiness but who privately loathe one another?
Very sad.
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tawse57 · 13/05/2013 11:26
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