I love my man and he loves me. We are on second relationships each and have 5 kids between us. In the process of buying a house together and our future looks very rosy. My problem is that I can't climax with him. I have never been able to climax with 'a n other' however I have no problem on my own(vibrator) He tries so hard and it just doesn't happen! We are relaxed, not drunk, no pressures. What's up with me!!!