I have been with my partner for 18 months, for the first 3 months sex was constant ( as to be expected) he couldn't walk past me with leaping on me and made me feel the sexiest woman ever.....then it dwindled as normality took over bit(again to be expected), now it's once a fortnight if I'm lucky and even then it isn't making love. He just lies back and "thinks of england". He never kisses me, he just literally lies there and lets me do all the work!!
I have raised it may times as it's hurting me and he has now taken to retorting with " life isn't all romance and hearts" and it's you that has the problem.
I have no idea how to deal with it anymore. He has a 14 year son who does not live with us but stays twice a week (he separated from his ex 7 years ago) and he is obsessed with his son and is prone to low moods as he wants him with us all the time. He has now started to put his lack of sex drive down to feeling low. But the truth is he just can't be bothered. I'm 48 and he's is a gorgeous (to me) 53 year old.
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My partner just doesn't want sex
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Jaq64 · 08/05/2013 21:46
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