After 6 months of court hearings, solicitors meetings and sheer agony, DP's parents have dropped their application for Residence/Contact of my DSSs.
They originally applied for residence, then joint residence, then contact of Friday to Monday every fortnight plus 1 day in the week. The SW recommended once every three weeks and no overnights. The key point here is that the previous SW insisted that the boys have supervised contact with the GPs but the current SW did not. We supported supervised access and therefore disagreed with the contact order proposal.
At court today, the Solicitor said it would have to go to a contested hearing. We were happy to do this but DP's Mum (I'll call her MIL for simplicity) said it was her way or no way and she would never see the kids again. So we are now at fortnightly letters from the GPs and weekly phone contact.
They WILL NOT come to our house. They WILL NOT see DP (big argument last year).
How the fuck do we explain that to the children? They are 8 and 5 with SEN and possible ASD (still trying to obtain DX).
They don't care what they are doing to the boys. They just want to win, like the kids are some kind of top prize. Bastards. I've had enough
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BumpingFuglies · 07/05/2013 15:51
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