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newish partner called me a disgusting bitch....its got to be the end hasn't it?

(121 Posts)
KidderminsterKate Sat 04-May-13 19:53:05

Why on earth wouldn't it be?

peggyblackett Sat 04-May-13 19:54:32

Hell yes

SPsYoniTheOneAndOnly Sat 04-May-13 19:54:43

Depends on what you did tbh

CocktailQueen Sat 04-May-13 19:54:50


Why did he call you that?

Restorer Sat 04-May-13 19:57:16

Well yes, but I'd like to know if that's because of the awfulness of what you did, or because of the way he spoke to you

KidderminsterKate Sat 04-May-13 19:57:32

he'd been a bit moody all evening and just as we went up to bed I asked him what his problem was....apparently an hour ago I'd passed wind and he didn't like it

SPsYoniTheOneAndOnly Sat 04-May-13 19:58:11

You only farted? Was it said jokingly?

CajaDeLaMemoria Sat 04-May-13 19:59:34

I'd have died laughing at that point.

and then kicked his ass right out

KidderminsterKate Sat 04-May-13 19:59:42

no it wasn't jokingly...he shouted at me and said I was a fucking disgusting bitch. I apologised, he got into bed and went to sleep.

ShatnersBassoon Sat 04-May-13 20:00:14

Has he never spent more than a few hours in a relationship? Or was it a badly worded joke?

ColinCaterpillar Sat 04-May-13 20:00:42

Red flag!

ShatnersBassoon Sat 04-May-13 20:00:54

He's a twat then.

SPsYoniTheOneAndOnly Sat 04-May-13 20:01:20

Id have sat on his head and farted then told him to do one out the door

Pozzled Sat 04-May-13 20:01:21


Longdistance Sat 04-May-13 20:01:37

hmm not exactly the crime of the century to fart.

Although, being called a disgusting bitch is.

iklboo Sat 04-May-13 20:02:08

So he's the only human being on planet earth that doesn't fart? Or does he somehow believe that women don't? Tell him to FTFOTTFSOFAWHFGTFFOSFM.

KidderminsterKate Sat 04-May-13 20:02:12

he'd had a bit to drink but not generally a big drinker. is sometimes moody but not v often. Only shouted at me once before....again about something silly - a prawn stir fry last time

LemonPeculiarJones Sat 04-May-13 20:02:56

Yes, the end. Now. Don't even give it another thought.

TreeLuLa Sat 04-May-13 20:03:37

Get rid.

Xales Sat 04-May-13 20:04:07

Is it your place or his?

If his get all your stuff and go home.

If yours wake him, hand him his stuff and show him the door.

ThingsThatMakeYouGoHmmmmmmmmm Sat 04-May-13 20:04:25

Repeat after me......Red Flag,Red Flag............

Lizzabadger Sat 04-May-13 20:04:44


KidderminsterKate Sat 04-May-13 20:05:12

think I will.....put prawn stir fry outburst down to mis communication and stress but the name calling has actually really upset me. Much more than he thinks.

Playerpleeeese Sat 04-May-13 20:05:24

RUN FOR THE HILLS. It will only get worse. Who's house are you in? If its his, leave, if its yours wake him up and kick him out

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