I hate posting this as it makes me feel weak but I genuinely don't have the first clue what to do here. Trying to hash out some form of agreement to settle the decree absolut with my ex (a secondary problem although maybe because he is offering me scraps this current situation is skewed) and am four months into seeing a lovely man.
Lovely man came to visit last week, and the water pump on his car went and the car had to be towed to my house. It has been outside since until lovely man can fix it. My ex knows his car and my dd told me yesterday that her father has been asking questions about lovely man and said car. Today I get this text - By the way has someone dumped a crappy green motor outside your house. If you report it to the council they'll get it towed away.
Thought I would ignore it, not worth really responding to but the more that the day has gone on the angrier I have become. A) he is pumping dd for information and B) he is driving past my house (not necessary as it would always be out of his way) and checking up on me. He has form for this before, but it's getting more sinister as the time of financial decisions have to be made.
Sadly my lawyer is on leave for two weeks so don't know whether to address it now by going mad or leaving it until she comes back. If you were me, WWYD?
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thatstripedthing · 04/05/2013 00:29
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