I have had some horrible partners. In fact, only horrible ones. I realised a couple of years ago I could not trust my own judgment, so haven't made much effort to seek out a relationship, as I get it so bloody wrong.
Well. A guy I knew vaguely at Uni, who I fancied the absolute pants off, got in contact a couple of months ago, as we both are back living in our old Uni city without many mates. We met and it was nice to chat, but a bit awkward. He was open about having a long distance girlfriend, who I met and got on with. Since then weve been doing the whole "must meet for a beer and catch up" thing, but have not done.
Well, this evening I text him and said I was off for a pint with mates at his old college bar. And he turned up unexpectedly. It was really nice, he got on with the mates (a couple) I was with and I really enjoyed his company. He just seemed really, really attractive and bugger me, I'm really wanting to see him again. If he's still with his girlfriend, I wouldn't think of doing anything, but how can I find out whether he is, without looking like an idiot? Since I've got home, he's finished his martial arts class and said he's in a bar twenty mins walk away, if I want to join...
This is a bit of a ramble, sorry. It's weird, I've shut off romantic feeling for so long. I don't like this. What do I do?
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Oh bollocks. A crush. Really? :-(
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StuffezLaYoni · 03/05/2013 22:02
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