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It's true, they only admit the minimum - but divorcing the w*nker anyway :)

(9 Posts)
Cabrinha Tue 30-Apr-13 21:43:10

So a month ago I posted on here that I'd found a number of deleted text conversations (so number and date showing only) on my husnand's old phone. I believed them to be contact with prostitutes, and asked on here whether that was likely. As in, did prostitutes operate that way. Consensus was that most wouldn't manage initial contact by SMS, only established contact.

Arsehole STBXH admitted it was him texting prostitutes, said he never met up with anyone, never went beyond texting. Yeah, right.

Anyway: I've started divorce proceedings and have had an offer accepted on a house!

And I found in his phone (am still evidence gathering, in case he pisses me about in divorce) a blatant message to a prostitute - and the number matched one of those from the deleted messages that triggered me ending it.

So I'd say it's a dead cert he did more than just text.

I just wanted to say 3 things:
- thank you to those that were there for me on here
- it's true, they will admit the minimum only
- it feels bloody good divorcing an arsehole

Moanranger Tue 30-Apr-13 22:11:32

Good for you! Post again when you need support, there will be ups & downs...

Hopasholic Tue 30-Apr-13 22:24:38

I remember your thread. Well done you! Don't look back, you're well shot, but you know that.
Here's to your future flowers

BriansBrain Tue 30-Apr-13 22:27:04

Well done and good for you.

Keep coming back and letting us know how your lovely new life is going smile

gettingeasiernow Tue 30-Apr-13 22:48:03

Well done, you sound empowered and this is great to hear. I remember your post too and I'm so glad you found support here.

Bunnylion Wed 01-May-13 00:13:22

I read the original post a while ago. It's really great to hear that you were so strong and have taken control of your future.

A new exciting chapter is about to start. [Smile] Well done!

Bunnylion Wed 01-May-13 00:13:58


jaywall Wed 01-May-13 02:17:53

Brilliant ! what a victory!

BookieMonster Wed 01-May-13 02:46:35

Good for you!

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