So a month ago I posted on here that I'd found a number of deleted text conversations (so number and date showing only) on my husnand's old phone. I believed them to be contact with prostitutes, and asked on here whether that was likely. As in, did prostitutes operate that way. Consensus was that most wouldn't manage initial contact by SMS, only established contact.
Arsehole STBXH admitted it was him texting prostitutes, said he never met up with anyone, never went beyond texting. Yeah, right.
Anyway: I've started divorce proceedings and have had an offer accepted on a house!
And I found in his phone (am still evidence gathering, in case he pisses me about in divorce) a blatant message to a prostitute - and the number matched one of those from the deleted messages that triggered me ending it.
So I'd say it's a dead cert he did more than just text.
I just wanted to say 3 things: - thank you to those that were there for me on here - it's true, they will admit the minimum only - it feels bloody good divorcing an arsehole