Hi All
For those who aren't familiar with my soap opera life, check out my other posts.....!
Anyways been seeing a lovely guy for a few weeks (yes I know early days) and am slowing getting to know him and meet some of his family. Done the siblings which turned out to be great (his Sis and I are txting each other) and at the weekend I met his Mum.
She is 67 but looks about 50 and is an active rambler/walker.....not my area of expertise it has to be said but she seems really nice. Very straight laced and you can tell that she was quite strict in the way she brought up her children. We had lunch and everthing was very formal.
My bf said that he had told her about me being a ts as he feels he has nothing to hide, and anyway as far as he is concerned I am a woman and always have been (aww so sweet).
I had no idea what I should wear so opted for Navy Boden skirt with red flowers, and red cardi. Chiffon scarf and navy semi opaques and brown boots.
FIrst thing she said when we arrived was that she had seen the scarf in white stuff and liked it, great I thought I am wearing the clothes of pensioner...:-) But when I looked at her outfit I could tell she was quite a yound dresser but nice with it if that makes sense. Think per una/hobbs.
She has been given the talk by her son about not grilling me (apparently she does it with everyone, even the postman....). I was glad as I was a little nervous about filling the gaps in my colourful life! She made a couple of comments about how she loved something as a little girl and then said to me, weren't you like that? I wasn't sure if that was a dig or she was trying to make me feel comfortable!
After lunch we went for a walk to the local park and we met one of her neighbours and she introduced me as her sons girlfriend which felt nice. Silly I know but little things like that are heart warming for me.
We had coffee later on and Neil and I cuddled up on the settee and she was really sweet and said she was going to phone her sister and too let us have some time alone..!
I have written her a thank you card and am posting it today, Neil says it'll be a first that anyone has done that so she'll be touched.
All in all I feel as if this could be a really good thing and just hope it continues.
Anyway better do some work, the boss has already walked passed twice and I have had to swap screens to show a spreadsheet....!
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Met BF Mum.....yikes
SarahGoodwin33 · 29/04/2013 10:42
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