So I knew dh was a keen fisherman when I met him.
He does go a lot. And when he's home he's looking at fish his mates have caught on Facebook, or getting fishing stuff ready, or making baits up, etc.
So AIBU to expect him to stay at home and spend some time with me and the dc's when he gets a few days off before he starts a huge new contract and won't be home much?
Instead of which he spent three days fishing. Came home the day before he went to work.
AIBU? Or is he taking the piss now? I think I'm used to being second best to a hobby but I don't want the dc's growing up thinking they're second best too.
I have tried to explain how I feel. I know he's always fished but surely now we've got children he can see that his hobby is not the priority anymore?
I think I'm past caring for myself but its not fair on them. We could have done something together but instead he chose to piss off by himself.
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AIBU or a bit precious?
Ilovemydogandmydoglovesme · 28/04/2013 23:16
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