Firstly I feel really strange posting this as I would never discuss it with anyone other than my dh and dm.
My baby ds is gorgeous, beautiful smile, really striking eyes and an absolute dream baby.
However, he has a physical feature which I worry about and that is the shape of his ears. One ear in particular is slightly pointed and I am drawn to it every time I look at him. I'm totally paranoid about it as he is so perfect in every other way. I avoid taking pictures of him on a particular side in case people comment on it.
I would never have noticed this physical feature if it were not for the fact that one of my ears is misshapen, so I know he has taken it after me and I feel so bad. I got teased at school about it but only v slightly but it kind of stuck. I am projecting my insecurities to my ds, this I know.
I took him to get a splint fitted in his ear to try and fix it but £150 later it fell out and just didn't isn't working.
My dh and dm think I'm mad, there is nothing wrong with his ears. My dh says that if there is a slight point on his ear then it is only very slight and nothing to worry about.
How do I overcome this issue? I don't want to spoil any more time of my beautiful son's early months by obsessing about this, what can I do?
When I hear of babies with real health issues it makes me feel so ungrateful, I need to get over this.
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Pinkflipflop · 28/04/2013 16:18
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