I've been dating a man for nearly three months - it's been going really well, he's brilliant, funny, and I really like him. My friends like him, his friends like me, and we're about to become serious.
Then, on a night out, I meet someone else - there was a tonne of chemistry, and sparks, but nothing happened, although I knew it could have. This other man is, I think, not really a viable option - mainly as a result of distance.
This week, I've been feeling terribly guilty about this, and it's worried the "romantic" in me that I should not be attracted to someone else so early in my relationship - I should only have eyes for my boyfriend. The logical side says things are going well with my boyfriend, it was just bad timing, things are good here.
If this was 5 years into a marriage, I'd know the answer - it was nice to get some attention from someone else, but don't throw away marriage for it - but it's only three months in - does it mean there's something wrong? Or am I just being silly?
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New relationship, I find some chemistry with someone else... what to do?
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Bennille · 28/04/2013 12:41
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