DH of 20yrs has withdrawn over past year but especially since Xmas. He works long hours and has a highly stressful job. I work PT and we have 2 teenage sons. I've always put him and the kids first. Since Xmas he's shown little interest in me, sometimes completely ignoring me so my stomach would start churning in anticipation of his arrival home - I didn't know how to deal with it. Started seeing a counsellor which has helped - I don't think it's all in my head now. He is out at weekends doing his hobby so all in all doesn't spend much time at home. Things were getting better at Easter because I was able to get him to talk and start to say how I felt. Then I found out that he occasionally sees a female friend on his own - he would say he's seen her after the event. I said that it wasn't right and that he should be upfront about his plans but he says he's done nothing wrong. We talked around it but he wouldn't budge. Now he's withdrawn completely and won't talk to any of us unless spoken to. I'm at my wits end. Please help!
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