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Mollymom · 24/04/2013 10:29

Ex is moving in with the Ow very soon. Currently still in tge joint house. He left me a note this morning to say he will be late tomorrow as they are going shopping for furniture for their new house. Need to vent cos for years I have wanted new stuff for the houase and he always said we didnt need new things so I am left with a rusty fridge with no door on the small freezer conpartment, a cracked bath panel, a second hand canvas wardrobe (just the one small one) fthat holds clothes for me and him, no shelves anywhere as that is also sonething we dont need. The oven has recently packed up and he was supposed to be organising a new window for dds room in september which he hasnt done. I feel totally agrieved and furious. Need to vent here not at home

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bleedingheart · 24/04/2013 10:32

I'm not surprised you want to vent. How hurtful. Why can't he replace the window, at least.

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Mollymom · 24/04/2013 10:34

He cant be bothered I think. There are a few diy jobs that are half done too which is him all over

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MorrisZapp · 24/04/2013 10:38

This is so shit, yet fairly predictable. He's on his best behaviour with OW, like he no doubt was with you back when you first met.

He can't keep it up. He'll show his true lazy colours soon enough, by which time you'll have moved on and be feeling loads stronger.

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Mollymom · 24/04/2013 10:41

I keep hoping that will be the case. I feel like screaming 'are you effing kidding me?!?!' at him but I wont