I separated from long time partner over 10 years ago.we had a horrible break up. Heartbroken after being destroyed by his affair and he's appalling treatment of me in the last year of our relationship. Despite all this, he was always the love of my life. in time, i got over it. Living a better life now and am happy but have never been able to fall in love or settle down with anyone else despite trying. So, after all these years, He contacted me today. He's ill (physically) and emotionally broken. I can't tell you how upset I feel for him. And then the awful realisation that I feel as though I've never stopped loving him and that's why I haven't been able to move on with anyone else successfully. How can I feel like this after all these years? He has asked me for forgiveness which I have given him so he can have some peace. So very sad.
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