Have 3 dc 8, 7 and a baby. Baby wasn't planned and as a result dh has during a heated discussion said he wished dd hadn't been born. He also works on the basis that since he works long hours pretty much all the responsibilty for child care, housework etc is mine. I do all the night wakings which is fine as breast feeding.
Before christmas he basically said that the reason why the place was a mess was because I go out too much during week. It was dc's natiivity plays and playgroup party and grocery shopping fgs.
During the week he is out the house from 1st thing till 7.30. He pretty much does nothing except make a mess in the evening. (Mugs and wrappers left lyying around)
At weekends he will cook the odd meal and do any diy or garden stuff but thats about it
I am on m/l from part time job btw..
Also hardly helped at all in the early weeks post csection. Maybe changed a few nappies but that was it.
Sorry this is a bit of a vent as much as anything.
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I would be better off alone wouldn't I?
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playpen80 · 17/04/2013 22:43
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