After 4.5 years, my dad had the guy to tell me. At long last!
They came for the birth of Ds1 (c-section so DP did a lot of things) and....
- DP asked my mum for money for the hospital parking (£20 - it's London, parking is expensive especially when You've spent many hours in a&e with a 4 days old baby.)
- DP put the wine and the cheese away a bit too early for my dad's liking during one meal (I cannot remember)
- Apparently DP also have them dirty linen. (When I ask him why he and mum didn't say so they say they didn't want to disturb me as c-section + brand new baby with severe jaundice. Still I think I wouldn't have mind to ask DP to give them another bed sheet and to check it before giving it to them...)
I am really mad at my dad right now, tears etc...
I'm at theirs right now with the kids but not DP. I invited them again (despite them saying no several times over the last 4.5 years). And my dad told me that. That he would never ever come to ours again. I am welcome to his but he doesn't want to set foot in ours.
This is crazy. Do you think it is because he doesn't like DP? DP is great but maybe a bit tactless sometimes and in the past he has had to apologise about things he said that were interpreted badly by my super-sensitive parents.
Am I crazy? Should I stop seeing my parents? Should I tell DP? My dad has crushed me....