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No "OKCupid", I am NOT interested in a man who thinks women are obliged to keep their legs shaved!
Liking OK Cupid (honestly) as reading some of the answers which men put to various questions is interesting....to say the least.
So I am not interested in the men who think women should be obliged to keep their legs shaved.
Or those who think "there are some circumstances where a woman is obliged to have sex"
Nor am I interested in a man who describes himself as "a slave" looking for "a tall black mistress". Why oh why have you added him to my "Quiver" list.....yes our interests might be similar but that's it. I am not "a mistress" or a dominant and crucially in this case I am not black.
Or in men who don't understand what the word "obliged" means.
If they mean that they'd prefer it if women shave their legs that's a valid preference, but their inability to correctly understand and answer the question puts me off anyway.
I think it must be like a lot of "recommendation" engines online - you have to hit yes and no a few times before they get the idea of what you actually like.
Some bloke i was at school with shared a photo of a young woman with fine hairs on her legs recently. Complete with the caption "its summer now ladies Time to get out the razor" Arsehole. Personally i wax so when i am between waxes there is some regrowth. Now if a man cant deal with that how the fuck would he deal with something like a mastectomy (God forbid) its the red flag called shallowness. OP when i used to work for a sex chatline we had a caller (he had quite a posh voice) used to ring up asking to speak to a tall black mistress. <wonders if its the same bloke>
There is a way to get better matches on OKCupid by manipulating the algorithm they use if you can be bothered and have some spare time. Answer those questions that are a deal breaker to you, mark the answers you will accept from a match and make them important/mandatory. I did that and it made a very big difference. It's explained here. Good luck!
True story: When I joined OKCupid, the very first Quiver match was ... my (at the time) STBXH! I didn't even know he had an account or that he'd signed up within weeks of us deciding to separate, but it gave me an extremely entertaining afternoon
....nor am I interested in a man who goes by the name "sometimescalledsusan" (insert any woman's name) who shows himself dressed as a man and another as "Susan". No way is a man having a better wardrobe than me!
Am also not interested in the bloke who "only wears bright colours", doesn't believe in sex until after marriage but then thinks he'll have sex every day! Not with ME he won't......
Must re-look at the questions as I am being matched with some real extreme folk.
Cinnamon sugar, thanks, that is useful. I'll study that later, quick glance now.
I haven't started yet but I@ve always thought that you're better off raising your bar SKY HIGH from the get go and if you get three replies in one year they might be from half decent blokes. There is nothing to be gained from realising how many entitled perverted lunatics are out there.
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