My husband is a recovering alcoholic and has not had a drink for 10 years. He has gone through the 12 steps and this involves a strong believe in god. We go to church as a family once a week but if I dont go husband gets a bit annoyed with me and makes comments as in "you wont get any blessing".
The children have to say a blessing before dinner and if he doesn't think the blessing is long enough he gets the children to start again. He walks around the house holding rosary beads and prays before bed every night.
DH has an obsessive personality and this has taken over this life. If I say anything he shouts at me "would you rather I was drinking". Of course i dont.
He has meet a few people along the way but there is one friend (who I have never meet) who is very religious. This friend travels to a shrine every year in Poland and this friend wants us to go in August.
I have had some terrible rows with husband this week as i really dont fancy it and the money it will cost. DH said he will take the children then.
I had just got home a long drive seeing a friend and DH started talking about going to this shrine, when I said to him can you let me have a cup of tea then we can have a chat. He stopped for about a minute then started again that is when I really did shout at him about not listening to me I was tired from a long drive.
He really does not consider my feelings.
sorry a bit long
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i dont share my husband's commitment to religion/church
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llllll · 15/04/2013 15:02
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