My DH has been out with his friend today. He text me at 6 to say see you soon. Two and a half hours later the front door gets knocked - I went through to answer it and by this time DH is letting himself in with his key - hot on his heels is a policeman.
It turns out that he has left the pub at the time he text but started to walk home and sat down for a rest and fell asleep, somebody (thank goodness) saw him and phoned the police who kindly brought him home. Thanked the policeman (who had to take my name, date of birth and place of birth) for bringing him home.
DH starts laughing when I shut the door thinking it's all a big game so I told him to get a grip. I've told him that his drinking is getting out of hand.
I have been doing a good ostrich impression for the last couple of years but can't deny any more that he has a problem with drink. The last time I did a full on count of how much he was drinking I got to 120 units and stopped.
He drinks wine by the box which is lucky to last a night. He just says he enjoys having a drink and needs it to relax and doesn't see it as a problem. He never has a hangover and always makes it to work so I think that hides things.
He has now gone to bed and I am just feeling pissed off, scared (not of him, of sorting this out) and sad.
I feel like I can't talk to him about this but it needs adressed before he drinks himself to death. Do I let him bring it up in the morning or do I leave it til he is ready to talk? We have a wee one and I really don't want her hearing this conversation but have no chance of childcare tomorrow. Aaaarrrgh, thanks for reading x
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soangryandsad · 13/04/2013 21:32
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