I think my husband is having a midlife crisis :0) he just walked out on me and the kids before Christmas. I was so devastated that I tried to kill myself and nearly did. He is cold towards me and refused to talk to me so me being me stole his phone and read everything :0( he was seeing a woman over the road. I tried to kick him in the balls and he called the police on me. He threw me on the floor and said it was self defence.
I haven't reacted very well but I still think of him as my husband of twenty years and am always shocked at the way he reacts to me. It's really horrible. He says he hasn't done anything wrong and I am mental, ugly a looser. He laughs in my face when I say how upset I am and mention the kids are beside themselves. He has reported me for assault and I am on bail. I don't know how I got here ?? Four months ago I was married and now my husband is with his second partner !! It all started when his father became terminally ill. Everytime I pick myself up he knocks me down again and I don't understand why ? He says marriages end all the time but he didn't even say anything to the kids he was in such a hurry to get out. He was lovely before this, always kissing me on the forehead every morning. Where did that man go :0(
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Matilda74 · 11/04/2013 23:14
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