This is in Relationships, and not Aibu, I dont want any Flaming or Burn the Witch.
I have been looking after my parents paperwork for them for the last 5 years at least. I am doing their tax returns and helping with any legal issues. I am the youngest sister. I have two children. I spent 3 years living nearby to help my parents get the help they needed, carehome for mum and care package for dad. I know their affairs very well. I have continued looking after everything including banking after moving away.
Last winter I sent an email to the family lawyer asking him to get in touch with my dad as he was keen to make a will. He had said he just wanted it to be fair and equal, but like I said to the lawyer, the will was an issue I did not want to meddle in, so thought it best that father dealt with lawyer himself. We were concerned about mum inheriting as she has dementia and lives in a home, so just wanted to make sure there was a will in place to not cause any problems.
My sister had asked for lawyers email address as she had a question. I gave it to her, naturally. I did not know the details of her query. Not my business.
Today, as I was helping dad with his tax returns I found a letter from Lawyer. He mentioned the issues brought up when he met with dad, but also email correspondence with sister. He said "Bearing in mind no prenuptials and common ownership of all assets it may be difficult to sign over the family home (dads house) to elder sister due to mums dementia and not being able to sign" (Rough translation the way I understand legal speak)
I am not quite sure what to think. But it seems that my sister has enquired with the family lawyer about the possibility of having dads house signed over to HER as "advance inheritance".
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WWYD. Letter from lawyer about signing over (dads) property to sister
QuintessentialOHara · 08/04/2013 14:27
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