I have split up with my partner - my decision. But now I am finding life empty and a bit of a struggle.
I don't have too many friends, and the friends I do have are so busy with their own lives that I don't quite fit in.
I don't have many hobbies that involve other people, I like to read and that's about it.
My confidence is low (I've suffered from mh problems most of my life and that has taken a lot of time and energy to get past) and I just find it so hard to socialise.
But what I would like is the sort of life where I have a lot of friends, people just popping round to visit, exciting hobbies, a good job that actually interests me...but I don't know how to get any of those things.
I am 30, and I already feel like I have missed out on so much in life. My 20s were spent battling this bloody mh problem and I've never really had any stability.
I don't know who I am or what I want.
How do other people do it?
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MechanicalTheatre · 07/04/2013 23:42
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