I've been single a while, I don't have any many friends or much free time due to having DD, so thought I'd sign up to internet dating.
Signed up to POF but so far the majority of the people who have messaged me have been people in their late teens/ early twenties. (I'm 21 but have specified on my profile that I'm interested in older guys.)
One man message me who sounded ok so after a week talking on POF we swapped numbers, he then started texting a lot, even when I said I was busy with DD. I once went to my DP's for a weekend, told him I was turning my phone off while I was there, turned it on to find 104 text messages from him, some quite nasty. I told him not to contact me again and blocked him.
Another was really nice, almost perfect but just as we were about to meet, I got a text from him saying he was going to have to cancel as his wife found out.
Afterwards I took a couple of weeks off POF and recently started using it again, however I still only seem to attract men who clearly haven't read my profile or are married or asking for a threesome etc etc.
So does it get better? Should I carry on or should I just give up and become a spinster for the rest of my life?
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Internet dating....Does it get better?
whitewineintherain · 25/03/2013 23:44
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