Why whenever I see my mil do I turn into a sulky moody teenager. Mil is nice, we've had our issues over the years, but she is a great grandmother. However, whenever I see her, I count face speaking with her anymore. Both her and fil whitter on and talk a lot about themselves (v trivial stuff), talk in great detail about boring things (traffic, weather, ill people, pensions etc).
Mil rarely asks me anything and if she does, either doesn't give me chance to answer, finishes my sentences for me (v annoying!), or doesn't take the conversation any further. It has got to the point where I barely engage with them as I find it tiring listening to them and they never ask me anything. They pretty much dominate 95% of any conversation we have. I've recently had dc3, she never asked me how the birth was, how feeding is going - nothing!
It's difficult, but I dread seeing them now! Why do I behave so sulky around them! Do others have any similar experience? Dh is an only child, not sure if this makes a difference!
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Cuddlemedolly · 24/03/2013 16:49
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