My sex drive basically disappeared when my dd was born 8 yrs ago. I've never felt 'horny' not once since then. I've been married for 10 years & we also have a ds who is 4 yrs old.
The lack of sex is obviously putting a huge amount of strain on our marriage. My husband has a high sex drive so is feeling very frustrated. I just feel dead in that way, I feel tired all the time, I'm on several different tablets for migraine prevention, the kids are demanding at the best of times & my husband isn't the easiest person to live with.
I feel sad to think I'll never want to have sex ever again. Why don't I get that 'horny' feeling anymore? It's like a switch has been turned off - I use to have such a high sex drive, but now, nothing. The birth of my dd went ok, the birth IOC my son was quick!
I'm not a very tactile person either. My husband likes to kiss, all day if he could, whereas I'm not bothered.
Has anyone else felt like this before got through it and got their sex drive back? If so HOW???!! Help!
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Has anyone 'overcome' a low sex drive?
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HaveAGoodDay · 19/03/2013 22:11
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