why when they leave do they not let you go? why do they just keep causing more upset and hurt?
he had an affair ,he left,he wanted to see less of the children because in his words"he cant commit to them" so we sorted every wednesday and every second weekend. He would let them down over and over leaving me with very upset heart broken DC,when the DC spent time with him they came back upset,didnt sleep,came into my bed and were very angry.
He goes away for a few weeks and leaves no contact number and never calls the DC. The last time he saw them was in February he lives 5mins away his parents next door but one but wont see the children. I have asked him to see them more ,he wont.He spent 2 hours on Wednesday and brought them back as they didnt want to stay.
my door was open on Thursday as i was bringing in the shopping he walked straight in I asked him to leave he said it was his house he can do what he likes,he looked through my post and rummaged through the drawers as I was talking to delivery man,he then left.
He has failed to turn up today and hasnt the guts to speak to the DC . To top all this off he has now filed for custody of the children because I am supposedly an unfit mother and the childrens emotional state has detoriated and so has the presentation of the children!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im so so fed up what do they do this for?why ?no one suffers but the children and its just so unfair. sorry to prattle on I am just so very tired and want to screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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bossmum41 · 16/03/2013 13:41
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