Today's Guardian carries an article about the long-term relationships formed by police spies working under cover. Their partners are in love with fictional characters, who may well be married in their real names but have fully credible false identities. When the job finishes, they disappear.
www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2013/mar/01/police-spy-fictional-character
"Of the 11 undercover police officers publicly identified, nine had intimate sexual relations with activists. Most were long-term, meaningful relationships with women who believed they were in a loving partnership.
"Usually these spies were told to spend at least one or two days a week off-duty, when they would change clothes and return to their real lives. However, Jenner, who had a wife, appears to have lived more or less permanently with Alison, rarely leaving their shared flat in London.
"It was an arrangement that caused personal problems for the Jenners. At one stage, he is known to have attended counselling to repair his relationship with his wife. Bizarrely, at about the same time, he was also consulting a second relationship counsellor with Alison."
Can you imagine finding this out about your DP after he'd gone?
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garlicbrain · 01/03/2013 12:05
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