I agreed with DH that I would spend a night with a relative last night to give me a break. DD, 5 months, has silent reflux so is a high needs baby and I felt I needed a break. Without any discussion, and following the advice of a friend, he decided to use controlled crying. She apparently screamed for half an hour. I feel so betrayed. I fundamentally disagree with CC. I know it is entirely unsuitable for babies under 6 months. I am stunned that he would take a major parenting decision without discussing it first.
So, he met me at the door to explain that was why I could hear her screaming (with real tears). We have had a major row. I now feel I can't leave her again.
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stargirl1701 · 17/02/2013 18:47
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